Huh. Okay. Seems like inadequacy & change that triggers well… change! Comments were left and plenty of people agreed that well, there really SHOULDN’T be any reason to cheat. Cheating ain’t the answer. Yes. Get out and then proceed. And not to say this is limited to just women; nope men can behave the same way I’m certain. And of course men shouldn’t cheat either, but should also sever ties before any unfaithfulness is done. On the real, this topic is some scary ass shit. To have yourself completely invested in someone; emotionally & physically and ultimately find out that you were on the other end of infidelity .. #$@#(^$#*& fucking terrible. Thus, I think plenty of people avoid having relationships because they run the risk of getting cheated on.. Something that looms in the background if trust issues are not surfaced and talked about. But these notions can be mitigated considerably really in most aspects. They can be lessened with TALK. Conversation; BRING IT UP. Personally, there was this void I had felt in the past that led me to feel uncertainty and anxiety w/ past relations… why? The lack of talk. You don’t know ANYTHING until you blurt it out. Feelings and happenings should be communicated on the regular between partners, I really can’t stress it enough. Whatever need or concern YOU or YOUR partner may have should be touched upon. And I can’t tell you how many couples I’ve witnessed break up out of the blue.. consequently leaving the hurt party completely in disarray, disorder and disbelief while the other drifts back into the sea abyss of people…unharmed. I assume that couples don’t thoroughly communicate their contemplative thoughts or at least ONE party doesn’t, which leads to things blowing up sooner or later. Retrospectively, to ponder the action of ‘cheating’ and/or really the transition into talking to someone else (which is also cheating, if you’re still in a rel.), says plenty (or not?). In a utopian world, cheating is non-existent. But that is non-existent in itself. Talk«« the single most powerful tool we as humans may possess to transcend thoughts into audible euphony. And I mean really..if you’re in a relationship, wouldn’t you wanna hear your special one talk? Their voice should be your utmost favorite music to your ears ~~~ in which case, I’d listen to forever.
“We are concerned here with AN ACT OF HUMANITY with the maintaining of cultural values and not least with a measure of considerable political importance. The effect upon all nations…of the fate of these innocent people so maliciously persecuted must not be underestimated. To leave these victims to their misery would be a heavy blow to all those who believe in human solidarity and would enclourage those who believe only in force and oppression and who act accordingly”
-Albert Einstein; on the persecution of the Jews in Nazi Germany.